The motion of letting the man pay out wages for the wife does not look beautiful

The motion of letting the man pay out wages for the wife, does not look beautiful
Recently, until " whether wife make house work, the husband should pay out wages " one CPPCC motion on the net cause discuss warmly. This motion is called by net friends " The heavy scale bomb " ,Not only cause and discuss warmly, " lasting high fever " . (" daily of Harbin " of March 7)
The husband gives to the wife " Pay out wages " ,Have certain rationality according to feminism visual angle, aim at ensuring women's rights and interests, acknowledge and reflect the intersection of women and value of house work, in fact unintentionally in despise even insult status of woman in the families. I think, do house work and pay the salary for the wife through the husband, to improving women's position and social competitiveness, without too great actual meaning, there is not proper, and does not accord with China " feeling of home " ,Because mainly the agreement maintains with ethics instead of the modern family of China.
First of all, the husband " pays out wages " for the wife ,Have ignored the equal culture of family. The equality of men and women not only has legislative authority, also sanctified by usage on people's morals. Article 2 of " marriage law " stipulates: "Implement the marriage systems of the freedom of marriage, monogamy, equality of men and women. " " salary of house work " Motion but it is it replace by ethics and family status on family. House work reflects with price, contrary to equal ideas of couple, moreover also include responsibility, emotion,etc. inside.
Secondly, have ignored the actual intension of the family. The family is dense integral a whole. No matter which side wealth created out is the common property of the couple, this point gives no cause for much criticism. Since the common property, why pay the salary to another party? House work Israel " The salary labour remuneration " Release way,not will last couple and will move towards not commercializing family relationship,last equal value exchange idea which housekeeping serve of nurse easily, it is long, unavoidably present indifference, estrangement between couple, even will aggravate family's contradiction, couple's dispute, not favorable to couple and American, the family is harmonic and the society is harmonious.
Moreover, have ignored the social environment that women live in. Women's rights and interests and equal status, need social identity. But in recent years, by the look of media's report, women have hunted for a job in some departments and has been discriminated against by the societies such as appearance, height and history of marriage and childbirth etc.. If does not dispel the factor of discriminating against women's work from the social competitive environment, even if women have improved one's own quality, has been " compensated " in house work ,There is certain economic base, then, once she enters social competitive environment, she will still be in the unfavorable situation.
The family is based on emotional tie, need love and responsibility to safeguard. Respecting, understanding, supporting the foundation that is a marriage each other among couple, it is the family that unites the harmonic foundation too. I think, the labour wage of house work is a false proposition, do not possess feasibility at present. Only couple more than two people discuss, show understanding each other, bear together for house work, the family relationship will be moved towards harmoniously.
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